Guard Your Heart, January 21
"Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life." Proverbs 4:23
When I was a little girl, I lived on a farm and I loved walking through the woods behind our house with my dad, or by myself, after he became too ill, and then passed away.
It was always so quiet and peaceful, and I had this “favorite spot” beside a small stream that seemed to always draw me to it. I would lie there for hours, listening to the sounds around me, looking up at the clouds, and dreaming about my future.
I remember that it was here that my dad always seemed the most peaceful and talkative. A deeply serious man of ill health in his later years, as I knew him, he could be temperamental and sometimes withdrawn. But here in this spot he would always have a story to tell, and as he bent down to clear away the brush and debris, one time he told me about a wellspring and its significance.
It is a spring that wells up – as the beginning or source of a stream, and as a little boy in the early 1900’s (he was born in 1902), it was his family’s life source, as it grew and flourished – a water supply was provided for his family – drinking, cooking, bathing, and for the farm – the livestock and crops. He told me how he would often have to take a bucket down to the spring and bring water back to their home, and he especially remembered how fresh and clear and clean the water tasted from the wellspring. But if this wellspring became clogged or polluted, no water could or would flow through their farm, so his job was to keep it clean and pure. So we often did the same with this one spot at a stream near our home. We often picked up leaves, branches, and debris and kept it as clean as possible. It was important to my dad, and something we did together. I even continued to do it after his death for several years, and I will always have fond memories of these times.
In the same way, God has gifted each of us with this “wellspring” – the core of our being, that can be filled with goodness, life, and love, or it can become polluted with discouragement, darkness, evil, jealousy, and fear. We must guard our hearts and keep them pure.
As I thought of this verse today, I couldn’t help but think about our grandsons and their sweet, innocent hearts – filled with so much joy, love, and enthusiasm for life, and how those things just seem to overflow to the rest of us around them. How “unpolluted” and pure their world is at the present time. How unaware they are of the evils around us. How grateful I am for that gift, but we must guard our children and grandchildren’s hearts and keep them pure, as well as our own. May we let God fill them with His love and goodness.
Prayer
Dear Lord, thank you for providing us with a place to store up goodness and joy, appreciation for life and love. Help us to guard our hearts from the darkness in the world and to focus on you, our source of hope and peace. Amen
When I was a little girl, I lived on a farm and I loved walking through the woods behind our house with my dad, or by myself, after he became too ill, and then passed away.
It was always so quiet and peaceful, and I had this “favorite spot” beside a small stream that seemed to always draw me to it. I would lie there for hours, listening to the sounds around me, looking up at the clouds, and dreaming about my future.
I remember that it was here that my dad always seemed the most peaceful and talkative. A deeply serious man of ill health in his later years, as I knew him, he could be temperamental and sometimes withdrawn. But here in this spot he would always have a story to tell, and as he bent down to clear away the brush and debris, one time he told me about a wellspring and its significance.
It is a spring that wells up – as the beginning or source of a stream, and as a little boy in the early 1900’s (he was born in 1902), it was his family’s life source, as it grew and flourished – a water supply was provided for his family – drinking, cooking, bathing, and for the farm – the livestock and crops. He told me how he would often have to take a bucket down to the spring and bring water back to their home, and he especially remembered how fresh and clear and clean the water tasted from the wellspring. But if this wellspring became clogged or polluted, no water could or would flow through their farm, so his job was to keep it clean and pure. So we often did the same with this one spot at a stream near our home. We often picked up leaves, branches, and debris and kept it as clean as possible. It was important to my dad, and something we did together. I even continued to do it after his death for several years, and I will always have fond memories of these times.
In the same way, God has gifted each of us with this “wellspring” – the core of our being, that can be filled with goodness, life, and love, or it can become polluted with discouragement, darkness, evil, jealousy, and fear. We must guard our hearts and keep them pure.
As I thought of this verse today, I couldn’t help but think about our grandsons and their sweet, innocent hearts – filled with so much joy, love, and enthusiasm for life, and how those things just seem to overflow to the rest of us around them. How “unpolluted” and pure their world is at the present time. How unaware they are of the evils around us. How grateful I am for that gift, but we must guard our children and grandchildren’s hearts and keep them pure, as well as our own. May we let God fill them with His love and goodness.
Prayer
Dear Lord, thank you for providing us with a place to store up goodness and joy, appreciation for life and love. Help us to guard our hearts from the darkness in the world and to focus on you, our source of hope and peace. Amen
All Wisdom and Knowledge Comes from Him, January 24
“If you look for it (wisdom) as for silver, and search for it as for hidden treasure, then you will understand the fear (respect and reverence) of the Lord and find the knowledge of God. or the Lord gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.” Proverbs 2: 3 – 6
In many situations, we hear people use little sayings of kindness to offer encouragement, insight, and hope into life and relationships and all its complexities. But so many times I smile as I hear them, because a Scripture verse will come to mind with the same message.
For God’s Word is filled with much wisdom about knowledge, discernment, love, charity, forgiveness, strength, faith, peace, hope, and meaningful ways to live a happy and productive life. As I read or hear them, I wonder if most people even know where these wise sayings originate. Do they even realize that they came from our Creator, Provider, and Teacher of all deep and profound knowledge? We may use different words, or catchy, cute little phrases to describe these truths, but the message is the same. God gives wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. These sayings aren’t “something new under the sun” – they are based on God’s love and desire for us to live the best life possible through Him.
These “wise” little sayings are interesting and often very uplifting and encouraging, but it is reassuring and comforting to know that they came from God Himself, who truly knows us and understands what we need.
1. “You were given life because you are strong enough to live it!
I like this version in Philippians 2:4 much better: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
2. “Love is everything! Love with all your heart!”
John says it much clearer in 1 John 4:7: “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.”
3. “Never give up! Keep trying! These times will pass! Put on a smile and your dreams will come true.”
This one could be based on many sources, but here is one: “Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, being fully persuaded that God had power to do what he had promised.” Romans 4: 20 – 21
4. “What a beautiful morning! What a beauty filled day! Forget your troubles! Go out and enjoy it!”
This verse says it best: “Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; Great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3: 21 – 22
Our God is the source of our real hope and inspiration, for no matter how strong and resolved we may become on our own, handling many of life’s situations requires more. We need His strength, comfort, love and assurance that He will help us through whatever we may face in life. For who could understand what we need better than the Creator Himself who made us? His words give us understanding and knowledge about life – of more value and worth than silver or any hidden treasure.
Prayer
Our most gracious and loving Father, thank you that we have more than an inspirational message we have heard or read. We are so grateful to have your presence, love and assurance that you will always be with us and carry us through whatever life may bring. Thank you for the knowledge, wisdom, and grace that you give us to understand, trust, and believe in you. We give you all honor, glory and praise. Amen
Don't Forget the Lord Your God, January 25
Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God, failing to observe his commands, His laws and His decrees that I am giving you this day. Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down, and when your herds and flocks grow large, and your silver and gold increase and all you have is multiplied, then your heart will become proud and you will forget the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery. Deuteronomy 8:11 14
How easy it is not to think of God when everything in our lives is going well and we don’t feel as if we need Him. We don’t pray as much, think about His presence very often, and if we do attend church, it can easily just become routine, and we really don’t feel the need to praise Him or seek His love and grace.
The verse above reminds us of the story of the Israelites before they entered the Promised Land. After being brought out of slavery and wandering through the wilderness for 40 years, living in tents and harsh shelters, depending on God for their food – manna that fell from heaven each day – they were finally permitted to enter their new land. As they do so, God strictly warns them, that even though they will lack for nothing, they must not forget Him and His protection, the provisions He has given them, and His loving care through the years. But forget Him they did.
How easy it is to do so when things are going well, or in times of abundant blessings or wealth. He becomes irrelevant, no longer needed. We gradually allow Him less and less involvement in our lives. We don’t necessarily reject Him; we tend to forget all about Him. We become proud and think we have done it all ourselves. We even convince ourselves that we can get along just fine without Him. But how can we ever forget the One who made it all possible, who is responsible for giving us the blessings we have? The One we will cry out to when difficulties arise? The One who is always there waiting for our return?
He is the One who gives us life, and we should honor Him and give Him praise each and everyday. We must not forget Him, His commands, His goodness to us, and the promise of His saving grace for all eternity.
Prayer
Our most gracious God, who rejoices with us in our good times and mourns with us in times of despair, help us to never turn away from you. Thank you for loving us even when we don’t deserve it. May our hearts be filled with love and praise for you always. Amen.
My Times Are in Your Hands, January 27
"But I will trust in You, O Lord; I say, you are my God. My times are in your hands." Psalm 31: 14 – 15.
Don’t we all have those dates on the calendar that can bring so many memories and arouse so many emotions. My husband and I recently had one of those days. Our kids, Kelly and Scott, called to wish me a “Happy Anniversary” and to tell me how grateful they are that I am doing so well. I was surprised and really touched that they remembered. And it is a day when I will always be reminded of how much God has blessed me in so many wonderful ways, and of how grateful I am for the gift of life.
Two years ago on the day of my wedding anniversary, I had open heart surgery to replace my aorta valve, and a year and half before, I had an unexpected, frightening experience that resulted in a life-saving pacemaker. These were difficult and painful experiences for me, and for our family. My nature has always been to become overly anxious and fearful in difficult situations. I imagine all the different scenarios that can take place and what effect it will have on our lives, but during these experiences, I felt such an amazing peace and calmness, an unbelievable quietness in my soul. God opened my heart to Him in a way I never could have imagined.
During each, I knew without a doubt that there was a possibility that my life could end and I would die, but for some reason that I couldn’t even understand myself, I had no fear. I knew that He was with me and I felt His strength. He gave me a glimpse into His deep love for me, the power of His presence, and the peace that only He can give. I felt secure, wrapped in His love, and I was able to let go of all the emotions and fear, and just completely rest and trust in Him. I can say with the most grateful heart, that it was through His presence, His all-consuming love, and His precious grace that I was able to do so, and what a wonderful place to be.
It’s not easy to talk about life changing experiences, and I don’t do it often enough. Yet, I see things so much clearer. My understanding is so much deeper. And when we experience His loving nature, see His hand in our lives, and feel His presence in such a personal way, how can we not share our stories? We need to give that message of hope to those who don’t begin to understand what our God can do.
I love the beautiful words in this verse: “I will trust in You, O Lord; I say you are my God. My times are in your hands.” You are my God. What comforting, reassuring words. He is our God, yours and mine. He longs to show Himself to each of us. If we will truly trust in Him and believe in His love for us, He will give us His strength and amazing grace to face whatever life may bring. Our times are in His hands. We can trust in Him.
Prayer
Dear God, thank you for always being faithful to us, for carrying us through some difficult times, and for always being there with your love, mercy, and grace. May we encourage each other in faith, find strength in your Word, and live always in your most loving presence. Amen
Don’t we all have those dates on the calendar that can bring so many memories and arouse so many emotions. My husband and I recently had one of those days. Our kids, Kelly and Scott, called to wish me a “Happy Anniversary” and to tell me how grateful they are that I am doing so well. I was surprised and really touched that they remembered. And it is a day when I will always be reminded of how much God has blessed me in so many wonderful ways, and of how grateful I am for the gift of life.
Two years ago on the day of my wedding anniversary, I had open heart surgery to replace my aorta valve, and a year and half before, I had an unexpected, frightening experience that resulted in a life-saving pacemaker. These were difficult and painful experiences for me, and for our family. My nature has always been to become overly anxious and fearful in difficult situations. I imagine all the different scenarios that can take place and what effect it will have on our lives, but during these experiences, I felt such an amazing peace and calmness, an unbelievable quietness in my soul. God opened my heart to Him in a way I never could have imagined.
During each, I knew without a doubt that there was a possibility that my life could end and I would die, but for some reason that I couldn’t even understand myself, I had no fear. I knew that He was with me and I felt His strength. He gave me a glimpse into His deep love for me, the power of His presence, and the peace that only He can give. I felt secure, wrapped in His love, and I was able to let go of all the emotions and fear, and just completely rest and trust in Him. I can say with the most grateful heart, that it was through His presence, His all-consuming love, and His precious grace that I was able to do so, and what a wonderful place to be.
It’s not easy to talk about life changing experiences, and I don’t do it often enough. Yet, I see things so much clearer. My understanding is so much deeper. And when we experience His loving nature, see His hand in our lives, and feel His presence in such a personal way, how can we not share our stories? We need to give that message of hope to those who don’t begin to understand what our God can do.
I love the beautiful words in this verse: “I will trust in You, O Lord; I say you are my God. My times are in your hands.” You are my God. What comforting, reassuring words. He is our God, yours and mine. He longs to show Himself to each of us. If we will truly trust in Him and believe in His love for us, He will give us His strength and amazing grace to face whatever life may bring. Our times are in His hands. We can trust in Him.
Prayer
Dear God, thank you for always being faithful to us, for carrying us through some difficult times, and for always being there with your love, mercy, and grace. May we encourage each other in faith, find strength in your Word, and live always in your most loving presence. Amen
The Power of Our Words, January 30
"All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man, but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison." James 3:7 – 8
I wonder how many of my hurtful words my kids remember me saying when they were young. The words that came out when I was tired, frustrated, upset over something that happened at school during that particular day, words that had power in them to wound, words that had nothing to do with them. Oh, how I wish I could take them back! All I can do is tell them, “I am so sorry and I surely didn’t mean them.”
Don’t we all have those times that we have said something in haste, with a little anger or sarcasm, using words that hurt, words that won’t or can’t be forgotten? Isn’t it amazing what a small thing the tongue is, but what enormous damage it can do? Maybe we remember a time when we have said things about others in careless conversations, and those statements have gotten back to the person we said them about. What horror, shame, and regret we felt. Or can you remember when you heard something that someone had said about you? It hurt and it may have left scars.
Words can pierce like a dagger; they go deep. They don’t just bounce off of us and are forgotten. No matter how many times someone may say “I am sorry,” sometimes the wounds are still there. Words tend to stay embedded in our hearts and minds.
I read once that before you speak, you should consider the following:
Wow. If I would only remember those questions before I speak, especially the last one, ”Is it kind?” One careless word, one word spoken with harsh criticism, one arrogant, self-righteous or judging statement can set off a chain of events that can bring such sorrow and pain to the person spoken about and to the speaker. Words can damage relationships and cause problems far beyond the conversation, which is often even forgotten.
My very wise mom had so many good sayings when I was growing up, but all of them obviously didn’t resonate enough with me. Statements such as: “If you can’t say something good about someone, don’t say anything at all.” Or, “If someone does or says something hurtful, respond with kindness – kill ‘em with kindness,” she would say. Or “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” (unless we let them – easier said than done.) Good lessons, when we consider that God intends for our words to be used as instruments of praise, encouragement, and love. “The tongue is a restless evil” and hard to tame. The King James version even calls the tongue a "fire." May God help us to think before we speak and season our words when we do.
Prayer
Dear God, help us to recognize the power of words and the harmful effect they can have on others, especially to those we love. Help us to remember to be kind, compassionate, and selective in our choice of words. Help us not to engage in gossip or hurtful conversations, but to speak with encouragement and love. Amen
I wonder how many of my hurtful words my kids remember me saying when they were young. The words that came out when I was tired, frustrated, upset over something that happened at school during that particular day, words that had power in them to wound, words that had nothing to do with them. Oh, how I wish I could take them back! All I can do is tell them, “I am so sorry and I surely didn’t mean them.”
Don’t we all have those times that we have said something in haste, with a little anger or sarcasm, using words that hurt, words that won’t or can’t be forgotten? Isn’t it amazing what a small thing the tongue is, but what enormous damage it can do? Maybe we remember a time when we have said things about others in careless conversations, and those statements have gotten back to the person we said them about. What horror, shame, and regret we felt. Or can you remember when you heard something that someone had said about you? It hurt and it may have left scars.
Words can pierce like a dagger; they go deep. They don’t just bounce off of us and are forgotten. No matter how many times someone may say “I am sorry,” sometimes the wounds are still there. Words tend to stay embedded in our hearts and minds.
I read once that before you speak, you should consider the following:
- Is it true?
- Is it complete? (Do you know the whole story?)
- Is it necessary?
- Is it kind?
Wow. If I would only remember those questions before I speak, especially the last one, ”Is it kind?” One careless word, one word spoken with harsh criticism, one arrogant, self-righteous or judging statement can set off a chain of events that can bring such sorrow and pain to the person spoken about and to the speaker. Words can damage relationships and cause problems far beyond the conversation, which is often even forgotten.
My very wise mom had so many good sayings when I was growing up, but all of them obviously didn’t resonate enough with me. Statements such as: “If you can’t say something good about someone, don’t say anything at all.” Or, “If someone does or says something hurtful, respond with kindness – kill ‘em with kindness,” she would say. Or “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” (unless we let them – easier said than done.) Good lessons, when we consider that God intends for our words to be used as instruments of praise, encouragement, and love. “The tongue is a restless evil” and hard to tame. The King James version even calls the tongue a "fire." May God help us to think before we speak and season our words when we do.
Prayer
Dear God, help us to recognize the power of words and the harmful effect they can have on others, especially to those we love. Help us to remember to be kind, compassionate, and selective in our choice of words. Help us not to engage in gossip or hurtful conversations, but to speak with encouragement and love. Amen